The New Year

January 15, 2020

Hello butterflies, I don’t think I’ve wished you all a happy New Year as yet so let me do that now. I hope you’re all enjoying Caitlin’s story and looking forward to whatever I have to offer in the future. I’m also hoping that you’re all doing very well in your life both personally and professionally. I wanted to take this time to refresh some things before we move ahead in this relationship of reader and story teller. Those of you who have been with me for the past six years know me very well by now, at least the part of me that I share with you. But for those who do not know or may have forgotten, let me reiterate some things that are very important to me. I abhor negativity in all forms. I don’t care what it is, if it has a negative connotation please do not share it with me. If you’ve read one of my stories and do not like it, I sincerely do not wish to know. Once I’ve written a story and published it, that means I’ve done the best I could with that particular story. If you want to tear it down or apart, there are more than enough platforms out there that promotes negativity, go there, not here. I will never tell you how to live your life, or do your job, not even if you asked, so please don’t think it’s necessary to do it to me. People say that when you’re a story teller and you put your work out there that you’re giving the public the okay to go ahead and crap all over you. Again, there are platforms set up for you to do just that if you’re so inclined, just not here or anywhere my name is eg. Instagram, twitter, etc. I think the world has enough negativity as it is and do not wish to share in that cesspit. I do not expect you to sing my praises, or to like every aspect of everything I write what I am saying simply put, is if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it, at least not here. Another thing butterflies, if someone is saying or doing something horrible that pertains to my work, i.e. uploading it to piracy sites, giving one star reviews etc, do not share this information with me. I do not wish to know. I think when I say I abhor negativity that some of you don’t get it. Let me spell it out for you… I will never tell you a bad thing about yourself, if you do something that hurts or annoys me, I just walk away. I don’t know what’s going on in your life to make you the way you are, and my telling you isn’t going to change you, that’s a myth, thinking you can change someone. It’s the same with me, I’m not going to go back and change the story because you didn’t like it, and you telling the world how horrible it is is just your opinion, it won’t change mine. If you get pleasure out of pissing over someone else then do you, but please leave me out of it. I left Facefuq almost four years ago because I found myself fighting with people I don’t even know, people that mean absolutely nothing to me. I don’t have negativity in my life behind this screen and will be damned if I’ll allow it in through it. I absolutely love peace, and joy and all the good I can get from this messed up world, that is my choice. You can do whatever you like, that’s your choice. So going forward, if you bring any negativity to me, that would mean to me that you’re actively trying to spoil my day, steal my joy, etc. DON’T…. Have a wonderful 2020 stay strong and never conform…

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  1. Faye said:

    Happy New Year! Wishing you a great year. Thank you for always sharing your stories. I always look forward to reading.


  2. Gabrielle said:

    I’ve only started to read your books recently. But it’s only with Caitlin’s story that I got curious enough to search all the books connected to the Lyons and suddenly, the nagging feeling became clear and obvious. Thank you for writing entertaining stories, smutty too because let’s face it, I’m in it for the dirty bits. 😛

    But it’s been a couple of years I’ve been wondering why so few romance writers, even erotic romance writers, didn’t try to raise awareness in their readers. It’s one thing to write a book or 2 on a theme, then get to other topics. But when I found you, it didn’t become so clear until you provided that list off connected stories to the Lyons. And the way you paced your stories, up till very precisely now, is just such a good thing.

    Whether you know what I’m talking about or just follow your inspiration, thank you for putting these notions of P***gate in the collective consciousness. Your contribution to “save the world” is much appreciated. You know, many say 2020 is THE YEAR. I wish you all the best and can’t wait for the next installment of the Lyons saga.


  3. Mary J said:

    I LOVE, LOVE your books. I check my Kindle / Amazon for your new books everyday. Hooked! I like the way all the books bring up other characters from other books.
    I was wondering if Dangerously in Love will have a second book for Jules?


  4. DY said:

    Mrs mordan, i have just finished reading caitlin story, it is so cool, please comtinue with mengele’s story, and the wedding of caitlin and todd, i m looking forward for your next amazing booksss❤️❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍😍😘😘


  5. Laurie said:

    Absolutely agree. You go girl! There’s enough negativity, the world does not need more.


  6. Misty said:

    Mama Butterfly, Happy New Year to you and thank you for books I just absolutely love them. I love them so much I can’t tell you how much I have reread them. LOL
    On this last one I’m still reading but I am loving how you are throughing all of these characters together.
    I’ve been following for 4 years now and I’ve never been disappointed that I ran into your books.
    Thank you and God bless you
    I’m already looking forward for your next book


  7. Dawn said:

    Happy New Year! Your work brings me a lot of joy. Please keep writing. I agree about staying away from negativity. Life is too short to waste time with it. Xoxoxoxo


  8. Tracy said:

    We love you mamma B I wish you a happy, healthy, and peaceful new year. You are a very inspiring person and I love everything you write. May god bless you and your family.


  9. Cristal said:

    Best advice for anyone! Very well put. Thank you and hope you have a great year ahead as well.


  10. Carol Chase said:

    Momma Butterfly thank you for sharing your thoughts .
    I’ve always tried to live by what my folks
    taught me and my siblings growing up. Always treat others as you want to be treated . Instead of fighting, turn other away . Big the bigger person.
    I like about you .alway give it to us straight
    My momma always said all in lords time . Keep the faith she would tell me when something or someone would get me down.
    Appreciate your stories you write. I’m fibro warrior.
    I read almost every day. When my pain is so bad .if can .i will read. Helps relax my mind and heart .
    Happy new year to you and your family
    Carol Chase


  11. Valerie Horton said:

    :-), you’re my hero, like I always say, “I wanta be like you when I grow up”. Happy New Year Mama, wishing you a thousand and one blessings.


  12. Amanda said:

    I just wanted to thank you for creating a world that I can escape to whenever I feel the need to. All your books make me laugh in some way with all the antics your characters get up to and also I think it says a lot when I lose track of time when reading because I am loving the story.


  13. Celi said:

    AMEN!!!! Thanks for the smiles and laughter you bring to me through your books.


  14. Carman Welsch said:

    Happy New Year to you too ! I’m so enjoying Caitiebear’s story right now on KU , but I will be buying it as soon possible . Thank you for sharing your gift !


  15. Merry jelks-emmanuel said:

    I m in agreement with your philosophy. I say turn the other cheek but some will always go and smack the other as well. That is why I stay to myself. This way I never have to deal with those who have nothing but negativity and out to destroy or tear down others.


  16. Sharon said:

    Good Morning Jordan,
    I own 141 of your books and I love them so much that I read them over and over. I absolutely loved Caitlin’s story especially you tied characters from your other books. I was wondering if I would ever hear from “Mob Boy” and “Mouth” again and I was extremely happy to fear from them in Caitlin’s story. Shane is going to be so mad when he finds out that Arianna did. I love how you deal with topics that are happening in our world today but also lighten the situation with humor so that your books are entertaining as well as informing us of serious things like sex trafficking that are happening in the world. Keep doing what you are doing and I will continue to buy your books. I can’t wait for me next book. In the mean time I just started reading all the books in “The Squad” and will read them in order.


  17. Lisa Christianson said:

    Happy New Year Momma Butterfly!
    Well said! I love your work and wish you all the best in 2020!!


  18. Tracey Levesley said:

    Happy new year to you too and Caitlins story was amazing, I can’t wait for the next instalment


  19. Acqua said:

    Morning Momma Butterfly,
    I love your books and have read all of them, some more than a few times! I have never made a comment before but after seeing this I just had to make a post. I agree 2,000 percent with what you said and it would be really nice if WE ALL could take on this perspective in general throughout our lives. I was raised with the philosophy that you can’t please everyone and you’re crazy to even try.


  20. Deborah said:

    First off I want to mention and thank you for many hours of pleasure and escape from the many hickups in my life. I have Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma and your books have gotten me through many bad days, I love your writing style and have read all of your books. Shame on anyone that would try to tear you down. More people feel the way I do than them. Keep up the good work!


  21. Kathy said:

    I love your books! They help me to escape from my stress filled days. And I await eagerly and patiently for ever new release. Hope you have a wonderful and happy new year!


  22. Tracyg said:

    She has shared the reading order she is an amazing author if you don’t understand anything you can ask her and she will answer or ask us her butterflies and we will help you too


  23. Tracyg said:

    This is why I love you straight forward talking you ms silver are brilliant at saying what I want to say but am too chicken to. Now going forward I am saying I am gonna keep begging for more from you. So be you that’s all I want


  24. Jann Cham said:

    Thank you for the updates … I don’t comment often but am an AVID reader of all your books. They are my guilty little pleasure and precisely do what they are meant to do – entertain!!! It’s too bad that people choose to take things personally or confuse your books with reality and then take those situations you write about to heart. Hmmm – strange isn’t it?? Oh well – forget them and keep doing what you do cause I ❤️ it!!! Also, btw, I am not on Instagram so thanks for realizing that some of your readers are not and double posting to here as well!! 🙂


  25. Frouke said:

    Happy new year to you and everyone you love. I love all you’re books. I will always respect your books because of all the time effort and work you put in them for us.
    Love you to pieces you have the same thoughts as I have…

    Lovely greetings


  26. Linda said:

    Happy New Year looking forward to reading your books this year. Keep up the great work you do.


  27. Allie Stewart said:

    Hugs and smooches – always! I’m so VERY proud of you and blessed to have you in my life!


  28. barbarapearman said:

    Thank you & Happy New Year to you too. I really admire your approach to life. I’m one of those idiots who ignore praise but listen to criticism. I try to be more like my husband who listens to both praise and criticism and then ignores them both! But one thing I have noticed is that when we’re happy and feeling full of joy, this is when some miserable so and so comes along to stick a pin in our bubble. They must be so unhappy to resent someone else’s happiness. Keep on doing what you’re doing. I (and many others) need you.


  29. Karen Nina Steadman said:

    Words have meaning and power! I have some crazy going in my life, your books bring me peace and happiness ❤️❤️❤️Keep up the awesome work


  30. Karen Nina Steadman said:

    Words have meaning and power! I have some crazy going in my life, your books bring me peace and happiness ❤️❤️❤️


  31. Lashawnda said:

    I love your work. Keep it up


  32. judy crock said:

    I read you words and wish I could hug you ,please don’t waste any more time on such sad people ,as you say your happy when you put a book out there , just remember many many people love your work and look forward to reading it , i am currently rereading lyon’s and the seals again before reading cati’s book
    Look forward and smile kid you do great work best wishes Judy


  33. Crystal said:

    Happy New Year!!!
    I love all your work and can’t wait for what you come up with next.😃


  34. Kaashifah Jacobs said:

    Peace and Love Momma!
    Happy New Year to you and all those you hold dear.
    Thank you for helping me with my anxiety and depression by creating characters who makes me laugh, smile and believe!

    Love, live, prosper❤


  35. Megs said:

    Dang people annoy the duck out of me, cud be why i prefer books, Jordan you keep doing you!! I love your work and being able to discuss and laugh and fantasize with the butterflies and the fact that you engage with us is amazing you have a whole possie of butterflies who backs and support you who btw is so crazy they will clip a bishes wings…I love the platform you have created for us on fb where we can be ourselves ie dirty minded and still support and be kind to each other…like i said on FB everyone else can go fck themselves .


    1. Tracyg said:

      You are so right she helps me by just being there. Just wish people would leave her alone


  36. Vanessa M said:

    A happy and blessed 2020 to you. Keep doing you and putting your best foot forward. I totally agree with you.


  37. Tammy said:

    You got it. Keep on doin you! I’ll read it. Happy New Year to you!


  38. Tammy said:

    You got it. Keep on doin you! I’ll read it.


    1. Mary said:

      Very well said hope this New Year brings you and yours much joy and peace 😀🌈


    2. Monica said:

      I love all of your work!! Always searching to see if a new book has come out. I can’t wait to read what happens next with Caitlin and Todd. Love the Lyon’s and how all your characters are tied together. Please keep them coming!!!!!


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Jordan Silver is the author of more than 150 romance novels and novellas featuring over-the-top alpha males and the women who love them. She also writes young adult and new adult fiction under the pen name Cami York, BDSM Romance under Jasmine Starr, and Polyamorous romance under Tiffany Lordes.




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